1. Can I put "No Children" on my invitation?
It
is poor etiquette to put this or any other phrase relating to this
(ex. "Adult only reception"). Guest should know that the
only persons invited are the persons listed on the invitation envelope.
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2. I
received gift registry cards from my registry. Can I put them in my
invitation?
By
all means, NO!! Including a card or other information referring
to a registry is inappropriate. [
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3. Are
the Groom's parents responsible for the liquor at the reception?
It is a nice offer but they are not
obligated by any means. They're only responsibility is for the rehearsal
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4. My
wedding location has told me that they have a "coordinator".
Why should I consider an independent consultant/coordinator?
There is a difference in an "In-house"
coordinators and an "Independent" Coordinator. In-house
coordinators are experienced-based. They are taught to handle in-house
suppliers, arrange line-ups and processional/recessionals, and catering
details. They are on salary with the location and experience varies
widely. "Independent" coordinators are experience and education-based.
They may attend appointments with you and other suppliers, independent
of suppliers you book. Varies services are available. They can work
on site or off-site.
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5. My reception
site says that they can handle "everything". So how could
a consultant assist me with my wedding?
What
could be possible is that they sub-contract out the services and
you don't know how much the service of the subcontractor really
is. This is the way some location can offset the time spent of searching
for suppliers. You should ask, "Is this in-house or sub-contracted."
Many times a consultant can locate the sub-contractor directly,
so that you can save the "unknown" amount of padding or
"kick-back". Hence, saving you the cost of their fees
by their footwork. When you hire a consultant/coordinator you should
know what rate you're paying.
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6.
Can my out-of-town relative or friend marry us here in Nevada?
Only State of Nevada licensed Officiants
can marry you. Your out-of-town Officiant can apply for a temporary
permit. Or they can participate in the ceremony but can't do the ring
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7. My
ceremony package says that my photos, video and flowers are included.
Why should I be concerned?
What
that means is that you will receive "standard" coverage
from who ever is on call that day. This could be a photographer
that is trying to build their portfolio. The better photographers
are booked in advance and don't need to be on-call\on-staff. You
will get "basic" flowers usually roses and maybe lilies
if you have a good location. Anything beyond that you will pay extra
for. Sometimes these fees can be as much as $100.
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8. How long before my wedding should I order my invitations?
You should order them as soon as you
have confirmed your date, time and locations. This leaves room for
corrections. But, you should order them at least 3-4 months prior
to your wedding. You should mail them up to 8 weeks out from your
wedding. If you need to notify people early call, send a note in a
holiday greeting or mail Save The Date cards up to 6 months prior.
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9. How
can I tell if a coordinator is reputable?
Check
to see if they are members of professional associations. Association
of Bridal Consultants, June Weddings, etc. You can contact these
organizations to verify membership and status. Many new coordinators
have planned their wedding and feel that they can plan yours. They
just decide and go out and get business cards, which anyone can
get. Check to see if they have a business license. Check to see
what how current is their education. Do they attend conference to
keep up to date on the latest trends? Also ask them if they are
also getting kickbacks from the suppliers that they recommend. This
may be a way that they can keep their fees to you down on the surface
to get your business. You want to know how and from whom they are
getting paid.
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10.
Why can't
I plan my wedding myself?
You certainly can. However, you may find the need of guidance to avoid
pitfalls. You can always get hourly consultation just to check to
see if you are on the right track. But, remember this is an exciting
and fun time don't get bogged down with the shopping and budget detail.
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